The death of a loved one is an event that no one forgets.
We remember the date, time, what we were doing, what songs were popular at that time and for some, they also remember who was present when their loved one passed away, or when they received the news of their loved ones passing.
The pain and suffering have just begun and there is no limit of time on our present sufferings.
Our father in heaven loves each of us so much and have promised us that our eternal life in heaven will outshine anything bad that is happening here on this earth.
We should all remain encouraged.